Once a month, our small group of creative and healthy food-conscious ladies gathers in the cozy kitchen of Heather’s art-haven San Francisco apartment to produce what we call Mindful Dinner. Our meals are gluten-free, predominantly vegan (dairy additions are on the side), always inspired by nutritionally packed foods, and sometimes by global family-influenced recipes. It goes without saying, the deliciousness of each offering is BEYOND, simple BEYOND delicious. There is soul in every sip and every bite.
Each dinner have a its own new theme. Soon after one Mindful Dinner ends, we begin exchanging ideas for what the next month’s theme could be. Once decided, each lady is on her own to interpret the theme into creative form. We do not pre-plan entire meals and as of yet, have never followed a set menu. (Perhaps that will be a future theme.) In the few days prior, we email loose ideas (Hey… I’m preparing a raw dessert… Oooohhh yummy… OK, I’ll make a soup with those root veggies coming into season…) to avoid making duplicate dishes. In general, between the 5-6 of us that regularly gather, we aim to spread the creations out across beverage, appetizers, light dishes and of course dessert offerings. With some kind of divine guidance, we always bring the perfect ideas and complementary ingredients to make a full dining experience that flows seamlessly from start to finish.
SUSTAINABILITY was the theme of our September 2015 Mindful Dinner.
This was, without a doubt, our most challenging and rewarding monthly meal. The theme was as just impactful on us chefs as the choices we make on food selection, meal preparation techniques and clean-up practices are upon the environment.
For this meal, sustainability meant a consideration of the current longterm drought in California, conscious awareness of water use for food growth & human comfort needs, and selecting in-season ingredients, locally sourced when possible.
Our Sustainability meal was especially heartfelt, filled with bittersweet gratitude in light of recent Northern California devastation caused by the current drought-fueled town-shattering #ValleyFire. Before the first bite was consumed, we shared a minute of silence and prayer for those who’ve lost homes and other pieces of their community. May greater humanity aid them in swiftly finding their way back to a kitchen table. We acknowledged our own fortune, being gathered around Heather’s artful table.
I’ve always felt the “home” of any home truly resides in the kitchen, gathered around a dining table.
All 5 of us ladies did our homework. The results:
Sweet potatoes and squash were the popular kids at the dinner dance, weaving their way through 3 dishes: Malin’s roasted sweet potato slices and Thai butternut coconut soup, and Farrah’s swiss chard wrapped bundles:
Drought-friendly green veggies and raw & dried berries all shined as fillers and toppings. And for that extra protein crunch, pecans replaced almonds and walnuts as the less water-demanding nut in Alexis’ salad and Amber’s pie crust.
In consideration of foods that have the absolute greatest impact on water resources needs, it goes without saying this meal included 0% meat. Then again, our mindful dinners never include meat.
Around the dinner table we discussed ethical struggles. Is it OK to take a bath during a drought? What is healthy use of an automobile when considering carbon footprint effect on drought, as well as one’s physical health? For this group, we settled on a preference of the the range between zero usage to occasional personal usage. We strive to walk or bike to fetch groceries, visit farmer’s markets, discover our home city. Pitch in for car pool. Support car sharing services.
We laughed at secrets shared on how to use less dishes and clean those dishes less often. (Could you only use one serving set of everything? Personal note: I am guilty in often using many glasses in a day. This leads to more clean-up. I will focus on improving this habit.)
We griped about current double standards in water conversation: restrictions imposed upon personal use while the biggest industry guzzlers make little adjustments. We gladly limit our personal water use, from changing how we wash dishes to washing hair less often to my personal favorite: buddying up on those showers. We see shower facilities shut off at at California campgrounds despite most meat producing industries continuing to get unethical free passes during this time of great water shortage.
We talk, eat, contemplate, savor, talk, and eat some more. We talk of relationships, body health, our support of one another, spiritual experiences, travel adventures, and the treasure chests of handmade creations produced by all of the ovates in our magically sweet #girlgang tribe.
We are blessed to be well fed by these life practices. They each deeply sustain the nourishment of the soul. I hope a little of our mindfulness practice has inspired you to start one of your own or to further share one you already cultivate. I’d love to hear about what life practices nourish and sustain you and your loved ones. Feel free to share a comment below.